im 3 months...suda anak bujang

since rafiq masuk 3 bulan mmg macam2 benda yg dia baru belajar
kejap je masa berjalan
rasa mcm baru semalam kena tolak masuk operation room
mcm baru a few hours ago nangis dengar his first cry
and now ur 3 months sayang...
jgn la cepat sgt besar
mama xnak rafiq hilang bau2 baby yg sedap tu...
although i cant wait for him to crawl, call me mama, read his first book on his own, hold his own spoon...
tapi..
i still want him to be so close to me, cry everytime hes awake coz he cant turn himself on his own.
aiyaaaakkk emosi pulak

tengok rafiq dah pandai balik2 kan his body...
sekarang his routine massages sgt 2 lah mencabar
he wont stay still
kdg2 geram tepuk2 his butt hehehehehe
dulu klo terkuat sikit tepuk mesti nangis..now, amboi...dia gelak2kan kita balik

dulu if hes hungry, dia nangis je..buat muka sedih..
sampai nak nangis kita dibuatnya
nowadays, if lapar sangat...and my movements tu xcukup pantas...
dia tarik2 my bra2 n my baju...
sometimes my hair pun jadi mangsa
GANAS!

mengagah2 tv tu xpayah ckplah kan..
after his morning bath, BF...
perut dah kenyang, its his time with his sesame street friends
ive tried Barney ( although i dont like barney's voice, tapi Barney sgt educational n morally positive)...sesame street ni kdg2 ada unsur2 mengejek among each others..its funny tapi yelah kang nnti rafiq ni dahla ada talent jadi notty2 hehehehe...
baby einstein dia suka tp he gets impatient nak tunggu the interesting parts.
so, i found out he likes songs
and lots of movements
so kena cari banyak CD's mcm tu
and then bila keluar his fave song...dia mcm nyanyi2 skali dgn lagu2 tu hehehhe

and then he can pay attention to the flash cards
dgn syarat not more than 5 a day
but books..still nak masuk dlm mulut
susah betul sesi membaca bersama rafiq..
xpelah..still kecik..nnti da besar jgn malas n notty k syg


pulak tu skrg jgnla letak dia on the bed...
xpernah jadi lagi na'uzubillah...tapi either on his back or on his tummy...he can move around the bed sesuka hati...
bahaya ooooooooo
if i need to take a bath ke, ill put him on a comforter in front of the tv...
keliling bantal2
itupon..haaaaaa....he can pull the pillows yg berat2 tu..and...apa lagi masuk mulut
so xleh la tinggal lama2
because lepas tarik the pillows...he has spaces to move outside of the confined area hehehe..
i think in a few weeks kena belikan play pen yg transparent..
so that he can watch the tv, and i can continue with my house chores
tu belum merangkak lagi rafiq
mama dah kepenatan

now day boleh letak in the playmat gym,
dia mmg nk capai 2 the toys instead of just staring at them
bagi dia pgg benda pn dia grip kuat...tp last2 masuk mulut la kan
n then dia suka main kain, towel ke, baju2 ke...dunno y..

his sleep routines pulak,
still the same
but now during the days when he has his short naps, he wants to sleep on his back..terbongkang gitu.klo terbalikkan dia, dia merengek2 xnak...agaknya he doesnt want to sleep kot...nak tutup2 mata kejap je hehehe
mlm2 if i dont put him on his tummy, nnti sedar2 je tgk dlm playpen, dia dah tiarap sendiri.
and if biarkan dia lepas BF siang2 kdg2 dia tido depan tv tu sorang2..
kejap jelah,as usual...not more than 1 hour.

recharge kata papa nya

but rafiq still has a slight fever lepas kena cucuk
although dia nmpak normal je gelak, aktif2
tgk temperature 37.2
0.2 above normal..nangis kejap je time kena cucuk...but ada temperature
maybe dia ni manja sgt kot
n then bila mlm duduk dlm crib mata dah tutup konon tido tp rengek2 perlahan
merajukla tu kna cucuk...
sorry syg...nk sihat kena la sakit sikit ... cian dia
sambil2 BF pon dia teresak2 the next day...for no reasons...
eeeeiiihhhh....manja lebih ni..

tadi baca sue's blog
about never shake a baby...
mmg betul ni
NEVER!
i know a fren who has a husband yg suka blk tension2 about work, selamba je baling the baby on the bed...mmgla tilam tu lembut..still!!!!
talking about shaking ur baby...teringat hari tu masa kt airport
ada this kid, i think dlm 4 yrs old
he was crying yg kuat amat sgt tu
the dad sibuk pujuk him..then comes the mom, dia pukul his back..kuat ok.dr jauh bunyi pok pok pok gitu
then the boy makin kuatla nangis,the mom tarik telinga dia..and then heret him and pushed him to the floor
the dad then tarik the mom..the mom said "biarkan dia, jom bang.."dia tarik the husband pg check in terus tinggalkan the boy melalak kt situ..
eventhough dia xdela tinggalkan the boy, dia nyorok tgk the boy kt tepi the ATM machine..
kesian k...budak tu teresak2 kt situ...polis yg jaga the bag scanning counter tu yg pujuk.
siap bagi air asia punye aeroplane toy tu nk pujuk.
n then the policeman yg bwk him to the parents bila dia dh diam
pastu the mom pegang tgn dia masuk departure area.
no pujuk2 or talking...
diam je

me?mmgla penyibuk hal org time tu
tapi everyone was looking
bukan me je

moral?
dont scold ur child in public like that
humiliation leads to more unexpected behaviour or tantrums..
klo dah malu kan..lagila dia melawan
selalu tgk kak b treat her kids
mmg kdg2 budak ni ada perangai bukan2..
but dia xpernah la tengking jauh sekali pukul
tgk dia bisik tu his or her ears perlahan...
n then alia or afiq mesti respond "yes mama"
kids learn through response
klo dia tau in the end dia mesti kena maki lg dia rebel
pedulik kan?

hmmm...this is for me also..
yelah kita mana tau, kita stress or what..skrg mmglah, hes still a baby,
esok dah besar msti geram dia pecahkn brg kt supermarket ke, pukul anak org ke...
adehhhsss
lots of stuff to learn..

plz share if u have info on educating children..
thanks...

these pics credits to sue sbb bagi baju ni and rinie for the leggings hihihi




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